Thursday, December 25, 2014

ETIKA BERBICARA DAN ETIKA BERDISKUSI DALAM FORUM

ETIKA BERBICARA

1.      Suara Jelas, tidak terlalu keras juga tidak terlalu pelan
2.      Tidak membentak, berbicara keras
3.      Tidak menyindir, mencela atau sinis 
4.      Tidak sambil makan/merokok
5.      Menatap lawan bicara
6.      Tidak bertele-tele
7.      Tidak mendominasi pembicaraan
8.      Bersikap ramah & santun
9.      Memperhatikan lawan bicara
10.  Tidak mengobrol dengan seseorang tanpa menghiraukan yang lain
11.  Menyimak & mendengarkan dengan seksama
12.  Hindari perdebatan yang tidak perlu
13.  Hindari menggunakan bahasa asing yang berlebihan
14.  Menggunakan tata bahasa Indonesia yang baik dan benar
15.  Berdasarkan fakta
16.  Tidak mengada-ada
17.  Menyejukkan dan tidak memprovokasi
18.  Menggunakan bahasa yang dipahami audience
19.  Hindari bercanda dengan kata-kata jorok
20.  Hindari kata-kata kasar
21.  Hindari membicarakan kejelekan orang lain
22.  Bersikap tenang & tidak emosi
23.  Tidak merasa paling pintar
24.  Tidak berbicara tinggi/sombong
25.  Tidak memotong pembicaraan orang lain


ETIKA BERDISKUSI DALAM FORUM

1.    Tertib berdiskusi
2.    Mendengarkan dengan baik diskusi yang sedang berjalan
3.    Jangan mendominasi pembicaraan
4.    Ciptakan situasi yang kondusif
5.    Hormati moderator
6.    Berbicara jika sudah dipersilahkan
7.    Hargai orang lain dalam menyampaikan pendapatnya
8.    Tidak fanatik dan mengakui kesalahan
9.    Jangan memotong ucapan pihak lainnya
10.  Gunakan tata bahasa yang tidak menyingung orang lain
11.  Menyermati pembicaraan diskusi dengan baik
12.  Pengendalian diri untuk tidak membuat orang lain emosi
13.  Biasakan berfikir terlebih dahulu kemudian berbicara
14.  Hindari suara keras
15.  Hati boleh panas, namun usahakan kepala tetap dingin
16.  Tidak menggurui
17.  Berbicara berdasarkan fakta bukan asumsi
18.  Tidak memojokkan, menghina, atau meremehkan orang lain
19.  Dilarang berbicara sambil menunjuk orang lain
20.  Jangan sampai ngantuk/tertidur



Monday, December 8, 2014

Cerita Positif_My Experience

Assalamualaikum wr. Wb
Waktu itu saya dan beberapa teman saya sedang melakukan perjalanan hendak menuju ke sebuah tempat wisata yang ada di Malang dengan sebuah mobil rental. Kami menikmati masa liburan kami saat itu. Selama perjalanan kami tertawa bahagia, bercanda bersama.
Di sebuah perempatan kami berhenti karena lampu merah dan tiba-tiba datanglah seorang pengemis menyodorkan tangannya untuk meminta sedekah. Uang 1000 rupiahpun di keluarkan oleh temanku untuk memberinya sedekah. Alangkah terkejutnya aku setelah melihat betapa bahagianya orang itu. Lalu diapun mendoakan dengan kalimat MUGO-MUGO DIPARINGI REZEKI ingkang kathah, diparingi SEGER KUWARASAN (SEHAT), SELAMAT di perjalanan dan yang lebih membuat aku terkejut diapun bilang mugo-mugo Panjenengan MUNGGAH SWARGO. Di dalam mobil itu kamipun bercanda dan akupun bilang “hanya dengan uang 1000 perak sampean bisa NAIK SYURGA lho. Andai doa pengemis tadi dikabulkan oleh Allah SWT (ha...ha..ha...tawa kami didalam mobil....mugo-mugo wae...).
Dan yang jadi RENUNGANku betapa orang lain begitu bersyukur hanya dengan rezeki yang 1000 perak. Bagaimana dengan aku, dengan kamu, dengan kita, dengan kalian yang telah diberi kedudukan, sekolah, dan rejeki yang DILEBIHKAN dari ORANG LAIN. Jangan-jangan itu semua akan membawa kepada kemurkaaNya karena kita TIDAK pandai BERSYUKUR, Oleh karena itu belajarlah untuk mensyukuri apa yang telah kita dapat dan miliki. Pandanglah ke bawah, jangan memandang ke atas.
Semoga Bermanfaat

Wassalamualaikum wr. wb

Saturday, November 15, 2014

subject-verb agreement



SUBJECT-VERB AGREEMENT
(Persetujuanantarasubjekdan kata kerja)
Sentence : subject + verb (syarat)
Example :
·         I work
·         She works
·         The car in the garage is mine
·         The man who is standing before the door is my father

Basic rule / principle :
singular subjects need singular verbs, plural subjects need plural verbs
Example : my brother is a nutritionist, my sisters are mathematicians
Tips and trick :
the trick is in knowing whether the subject is singular or plural. The next trick is recognizing a singular or plural verb

1.     RULE 1 : INDEFINITE PRONOUNS
The indefinite pronouns anyone, everyone, someone, no one, nobody are always singular and therefore, require singular verbs
·         Everyone has done his or her homework
·         Somebody has left her purse
·         Nobody is in the room
Exceptions 1 : all and some
Some indefinite pronouns such as all, some are singular or plural depending on what they are referring to. (is the thing referred to countable or not ?) be careful when choosing a verb to accompany such pronouns
·         Some of the books are missing
·         Some of the water is gone
Exception 2 :none
None can be singular or plural depending on the noun that follows.
·         None of the students are in the class
·         None of the food is fresh
Special case :  Each
Each is always singular. Don’t be confused/distracted with the plural nouns following it.
·         Each of the students is responsible for his/her homework
·         Each of the cars has different color



2.     RULE 2 : TOGETHER WITH, AS WELL AS, AND ALONG WITH
Phrases such as together with, as well as, and along with are not the same as and. They don’t add or compound the subject.
·         The mayor, as well as his brothers, is going to prison
·         The mayor and his brothers are going to jail
·         My friends, together with rani, are at school
Additional explanation
Sometime the subject is separated from the verb by words such as along with, as well as, besides, or not. Ignore these expression when determining whether to use a singular or plural verb
Examples :
·         The politician, along with the newsmen, is expected shortly
·         Excitement, as well as nervousness, is the cause of her shaking


3.     RULE 3 : SUBJECT SEPARATED FROM THE VERB / APPOSITIVE
Sometimes modifiers will get between a subject and its verb, but these modifiers must not confuse the agreement between the subject and its verb.
Example :
The mayor, who has been convicted along with his four brothers on four counts of various crimes but who also seem, like a cat, to have several political lives, is finally going to jail.


4.     RULE 4 : THE PRONOUNS OF ADJECTIVE CLAUSE
Sometimes the pronouns who, that, or which is the subject of a verb in the middle of the sentence. The pronouns who, that, and which become singular or plural according to the noun directly in front of them. So, if that noun is singular, use a singular verb. If it is plural use a plural verb.
·         Salma is scientist who writes the reports.
The word in front of who is scientist, which is singular. Therefore, use the singular verbs writes.
·         He is one of the men who does the work.
The word in front of who is men, which is plural. Therefore, use the plural verb do.

                                        
5.     RULE 5 : EITHER + OR AND NEITHER + NOR
Or does not conjoin (as and does) : when nor or or is used the subject closer to the verb determines the number of the verb. Whether the subject comes before or after the verb doesn’t matter :
·         Either my father or my brothers are going to sell the house
·         Neither my brothers nor my father is going to sell the house
·         Are either my brothers or my father responsible ?
·         Is either my father or my brothers responsible ?
Pronouns : Either and Neither
The pronouns Either and Neither are singular and require singular verbs eventhought they seem to be referring, in a sense, to two things.
·         Neither of the two traffic lights is working.
Ether of us is capable of doing the job
·         Which shirt do you want for Christmas ?
Jawab :eiher is fine with me
BE CAREFUL !
In informal writing, neither and either sometimes take a plural verb when these pronouns are followed by a prepositional phrase beginning with of. This is particularly true of interrogative constructions :
“Have either of you two clowns read the assignment ?”
“Are either of you taking this seriously ?”


6.     RULE 6 : PSEUDO SUBJECT THERE AND HERE
The words There and Here are never subjects. The real subjects come after the verbs.
·         There are two reasons [plural subject] for this
·         There is no reason for this
·         Here are two apples
·         Here is the key


7.     RULE 7 : THIRD PARTY SINGULAR HE, SHE, IT, PERSONAL NAME
Verbs in the present tense for third-person, singular subjects (He, she, it and anything those words can stand for : Rani, the cat, the table) have s-ending. Other verbs do not add s-ending.
·         She teaches english
·         Rani teaches English
·         The cat eats fish
·         It eats fish
REMEMBER !
Add –s / es only to present verbs, notto past or past participle verbs. The past form of singular “be” is “was”
Singular Present : she is here
Singular past : she was here


8.     RULE 8 : WORD END IN –S
Singular
some words end in –s and appear to be plural but are really singular and require singular verbs.
·         The news from the front is bad
·         Measles is a dangerous disease for pregnant women
Plural
But, some words end in –s and appear to be plural and require plural verbs.
·         My assets were wipedout in the depression
·         The average worker’s earnings have gone up dramatically
·         Out thanks go to the workers who supported the union

List of singular words end in –s
·         Diseases : measles, rabies
·         Fields of study and occupation : economics, ethics, linguistics, politics, physics, gymnastics
·         Games : dominoes, darts, cards
Example : mathematics is my favorite lesson
List of plural words end in –s (only with certain meanings)
·         Customs (at the airport, not practices)
·         Guts (courage, not intestines)
·         Quarters (lodgings, not ¼ s)
·         Clothes (garments, not fabrics)
·         Goods (merchandise, not the opposite of bad)
·         Arms (weapons, not limb)
Example : the goods are in the warehouse

Nouns that are always plural :
Pants                           tweezers
Clothes                        pajamas
Binoculars                   police
Jeans                            shorts
Forceps                        glasses
Trousers                       scissors
Tongs                          goggles
Shorts                          tweezers
Example :
The scissors are on the table, the pair of the jeans needs to be washed


9.     RULE 9 : FRACTIONAL EXPRESSIONS HALF OF, A PART OF, A PERCENTAGE OF, AND SO FORTH
With words that indicate portions-percent, fraction, part, majority, some, all, none, remainder, and so forth-look at the noun in you of phrase (object of the preposition) to determine whether to use a singular or plural verb. If the object of the preposition is singular, use a singular verb. If the object of the preposition is plural, use a plural verb
Examples :
Fifty percent of the pie has disappeared
Pie is the object of the preposition of
Fifty percent of the pies have disappeared
Pies is the object of the preposition
One-third of the city is unemployed
One-third of the people are unemployed


10.                        RULE 10 : NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE SUBJECT
If your sentence compounds a positive and a negative subject and one is plural, the other singular, the verb should agree with the positive subject.
·         The department members but not the chair have decided not to teach on valentine’s day
·         It is not  the faculty members but the precident who decides this issue
·         It was the speaker, not his ideas, that has provoked the students to riot


11.                        RULE 11 : SUM OF MONEY OR PERIODS
Use a singular verb with sums of money or periods of time
Examples :
Ten dollars is a high price to pay
Five years is the maximum sentence or that offense